December sparkles, but January brings the reset.
The festive whirlwind has passed, routines return, days feel long, and young children can experience a big shift in energy, emotions, and behaviour. Parents and practitioners often describe January as a โslow monthโ โ darker mornings, colder days, and the readjustment after Christmas can feel like a wobble for adults and children alike.
Thatโs why our January Policy of the Month focuses on Mental Health and Wellbeing โ for our children and for our staff team here at Scallywags.
๐ช๐ต๐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐
After Christmas, children return with:
- disrupted sleep patterns
- overstimulation
- changes in diet
- high emotions
- time away from familiar routines
- less time outdoors
- separation anxieties resurfacing
Staff also return after a busy December, winter weather, and shorter days โ often feeling tired or flat themselves.
At Scallywags, we believe that supporting wellbeing is not something โadded onโ โ it is woven into everything we do, especially at this time of year.
๐ข๐๐ฟ ๐๐๐ด๐ด๐ฒ ๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐น๐บ
Inspired by Hygge โ warmth, comfort, simplicity โ we make our environment especially cosy in January:
๐ฏ soft lighting and lamps
๐งฃ blankets and cushions
๐ถ gentle background music
๐ quiet story corners
๐ฟ natural textures and sensory play
๐ซ warm drinks and calm rituals
Hygge helps children and adults feel grounded, safe, and soothed during a month that can otherwise feel heavy or cold.
๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐น ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ช๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ช๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด
Even in frosty weather, our Forest School ethos plays a huge role in maintaining positive mental health:
- fresh air reduces stress
- movement supports emotional regulation
- natural spaces encourage mindfulness
- children feel freedom and independence
- staff benefit from being outdoors too
A simple winter walk, listening to birds, noticing ice patterns or bare branches โ nature gives us space to breathe.
๐จ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐
Young children canโt always express how they feel, so we see emotions through behaviour.
In January, you may notice:
- clinginess
- tears at drop-off
- big feelings over small things
- tiredness
- โI donโt want toโ moments
- difficulty separating after time at home
- sensory sensitivity
This is normal.
This is developmentally expected.
And with the right support, it passes.
๐๐ผ๐ ๐ช๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ปโ๐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐๐๐ฎ๐ด๐
Our team are trained in co-regulation, connection, and emotional development. In January we focus even more on:
โจ Extra comfort and reassurance
โจ Gentle transitions back into routine
โจ Predictable structure to the day
โจ Calming, low-stimulation play
โจ Emotion coaching (โI can see youโre feeling sadโฆ Iโm here.โ)
โจ Mindfulness moments
โจ Hygge-inspired reading, snuggling, and sensory play
โจ Outdoor time for grounding
We use tools such as:
The Colour Monster, Feeling Faces, calm jars, breathing prompts, visual timetables, and mirrors to support emotional literacy.
๐ฆ๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ถ๐น๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ปโ๐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ
Parents often feel January stress too โ work routines return, budgets feel tighter, and everyone is tired.
Here are some gentle ideas to support your childโs (and your own!) wellbeing at home:
๐ฏ 1. Keep things simple
Reduce overstimulation. Slow, cosy play works wonders.
๐ด 2. Bring predictable routines back
Consistent sleep and mealtime patterns help children feel safe.
๐งฃ 3. Add your own Hygge
Dim lights, warm baths, cuddles, cosy corners.
๐ฒ 4. Get outside daily
Even 10 minutes improves mood.
๐ฃ 5. Talk about feelings
Reflect with them:
โItโs hard getting back into routine. I feel tired too.โ
๐ 6. Offer connection before correction
A hug regulates the nervous system quicker than any words.
โณ 7. Allow time
Mornings feel harder after holidays. Slow starts reduce stress.
๐ซถ 8. Be kind to yourself
Children thrive when the adults around them feel supported too.
๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ณ๐ณ ๐ช๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐๐๐ฎ๐ด๐
Our January policy also highlights the importance of staff mental health.
We support our team through:
- supervision sessions
- manageable workloads
- signposting to external support
- mindfulness, yoga, and movement breaks
- Forest School experiences
- open communication
- a culture free from stigma
When staff feel well, children feel well.
๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐น๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ
At Scallywags, we want January to feel:
๐ฑ calm
๐ supportive
๐ฏ cosy
๐ฒ grounding
๐ emotionally safe
For children.
For parents.
For staff.
Together, we can make the return to routine a positive, nurturing experience that sets the tone for a wonderful year ahead.
Mental health blog written by Demi Eastment
